Talking about money and salaries was much more common among my friends when we were just out of college and looking for our first jobs. Perhaps it’s because we were all on equal ground – around same age, student loan debt, and looking for our first jobs – that made it seem less intimidating.
Now that my friends are in their late 20’s and early 30’s and we’ve been in the work force for almost a decade (!), we don’t talk about exact numbers as much as we used to. They’ll say “I make in the range of X” or “I got a 10%” raise” without saying how much they now make. And so in turn, I use vague references about my salary and finances too.
However, since I have this blog, anyone can poke around and see how much money I currently make (and how much I’ve made in the past), as well as pretty much any other financial detail of my life. And I’m okay with that because I’ve always been pretty open when it comes to talking about money with my close friends. If someone asks me a question, I’ll happily answer (and as a PF nerd, I’m always hopeful for an engaging financial conversation). But as a rule, I don’t bring up anything to do with personal finance or salaries unless specifically asked.
Knowledge is power
Simply knowing what a friend or co-worker is earning will not result in a raise for you. That’s not how it works. But it could help you negotiate more confidently during your next performance review or job search if you know what other people with similar experience in similar industries are making. There have been countless instances where I’ve reached out to my friends in marketing to ask about their salary range and responsibilities, and I’ve been approached often as well to provide the same sort of information. Sometimes we don’t talk specific numbers, but just being able to pass along information seems to help.
If you’re not comfortable talking about money with your friends just yet, at least be sure to check out websites like Glassdoor, which can help you see what others are making in similar jobs within your city. I just pulled the below screenshot from Glassdoor after searching for Marketing Manager salaries in Vancouver. Now, that’s not my exact job title, but it’s close enough. And I feel good knowing that my salary falls comfortably within the range below.
But there are other benefits to knowing what your friends make besides helping each other with job searches and raise negotiations. It can also give us each other a greater understanding of how much to spend when going out to restaurants or traveling. If my friend knows what I make, perhaps she will understand my budget and how much I’m comfortable spending when we are together.
Honesty has consequences
While talking about salaries with close friends can be a good decision, it can also have negative effects as well. Depending on what your relationship is with someone, finding out how much they make might bring on feelings of jealousy. It could also inspire resentment within the friendship when you start to notice small examples of what one person has that the other person doesn’t (like a designer purse, or dining in fancier restaurants, etc.) – a “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality.
I wouldn’t be comfortable talking about my salary or details about my finances with people I’m not close to. But I do think it’s beneficial to have open discussions about salary ranges, responsibilities, negotiation strategies, promotions, etc. with people you trust who are doing similar work or are within the same industry as you.
Do you know how much money your friends are making?
Note: this post was sponsored by Tangerine Bank, however the views and opinions expressed are my own.
You all know how I feel about credit cards. I love them for all the amazing rewards programs, and as long as you are using them responsibly, getting something for nothing is pretty great in my book.
But the thing about credit card rewards programs is that the rewards are almost always applied towards current or future purchases. For example, my travel rewards card helps me redeem purchases I’ve already made. And many cashback rewards cards just put the cash rewards back onto your credit card. This is why I was so excited when I heard about Tangerine Money-Back Credit Card.
What makes the Tangerine Money-Back Credit Card so unique is that cardholders are able to choose two categories where you can earn 2% cashback (you’ll get 1% on all the rest of your purchases). And as an added bonus, you will earn 4% cashback for the first three months in two categories (as well as 1% on all the rest of your purchases) for the first three months.
The categories look like this:
However, there’s an even bigger bonus. If you decide you want your Money-Back Rewards deposited into your Tangerine Savings Account (instead of being applied directly to your credit card balance), you’ll be able to choose a third category to earn 2% cashback.
The Money-Back Rewards are earned automatically, and paid out monthly. And perhaps best of all – not only are there’s no limit to the amount of rewards you can earn, but you can change your 2% Money-Back categories to suit your spending when you need to. This is so empowering because you get to decide where you get rewarded.
I love the option of being able to save your savings by putting your earned rewards into a savings account – instead of onto your credit card where you’d just spend that money on something else. And when you spend your savings, you haven’t really saved anything at all!
Not only will this credit card instantly become one of the better no annual fee cashback credit cards, but for me, it could be a game changer in the credit card industry because of the ability to save your savings. I like that.
Aside from the Money-Back Rewards, Tangerine’s cashback card also offers a few other great features, such as:
- 1.5% Foreign exchange fee (one of the lowest in the market)
- Purchase Assurance and Extended Warranty
Would you ever consider using the Tangerine Money-Back Credit Card?
Wow, I can’t believe it’s been weeks since I last wrote here. It’s been a nutty, stressful month at work – lots of overtime, and surprisingly a lot of freelance opportunities have also come up. But aside from work, any free time I’ve had has been spent enjoying the outdoors and with friends and family. Here’s a quick update on the happenings around here:
I’m currently writing this post from Tofino while RD surfs and I rest my tired running legs. I haven’t been here since 2011, and can’t believe how much fun the trip has been so far. It helps that RD and I had the same sort of vacation in mind – to be outside and active as much as possible.
Thursday night we took the ferry to Vancouver Island and drove straight to Tofino, arriving pretty late at night. It was a crappy drive, but waking up Friday morning already in Tofino was pretty great. RD went out for a morning surf, and I did a slow 8.5km run on Chesterman Beach. In the afternoon, we went on a couple long walks – one to Schooner’s Cove, and the other on Chesterman. By the end of the night, my legs had covered 21km of ground. :)
Saturday morning started out much like Friday – RD went out surfing, and I went for a 9.5km run on the beach. After that, we headed into town to run a few errands, explored Tonquin Park, and then met up with my friends for a walk on the beach and then dinner at a pub on the pier. My daily output was 18km of running and walking.
Sunday morning (today) we drove down to Ucluelet to tackle the Wild Pacific Trail. I didn’t realize it was rated Trip Advisor’s #3 attraction on Vancouver Island, but the views were pretty stunning. :) The round trip hike was just 9km of easy hiking, but I really enjoyed it. Tonight we plan on hitting up Tacofino, and will try to catch the sunset at Chesterman Beach. Tomorrow we’ll be packing up and visiting my uncle in Nanaimo before heading to Powell River to visit with RD’s friends and his grandma for 2 or 3 nights. Hope your Easter long weekend has been filled with fresh air and family! :)
Freelancing has been going well. I banked $4,350 in freelance income so far this month, with another $700 to be paid out in the next week. I’ve also secured a couple more contracts for next month, which should bring in about $3,000. I’m really pleased with securing both repeat clients as well as attracting new companies I’ve never worked with before. :)
As for my full-time job, I received a small 2.5% raise last week. It’s not much, but nice to see a little boost to my salary. In terms of workload, it’s been busy. A major person in our marketing team moved across the country and is now part of the eastern team – so our little group has to absorb her workload for a while until we can determine if/when we need to replace her. That has resulted in overtime every day for me, but the good news about that is I’m banking more hours (which means more vacation time).
- I’ve been indoor climbing 3x/week lately, and it has been really fun. We’ve been making progress up to 5.10d and 5.11a routes… although RD will be gone for an entire month for work starting in May, so I suspect our progress will be severely stunted. :)
- We are planning an epic road trip for October. We have both individually wanted to travel north for years, and with the dollar keeping our vacations within Canada this year, it seems like the perfect time to go. So we’ll likely be taking 3 weeks in October, loading up my car, and heading north. I’m very excited to hike and explore the Northern BC and Yukon area. If you’re from the north or if you’ve traveled there, I’ll be calling on you for travel tips and suggestions, as I’ve not been farther north than Dawson Creek!
- As a side expense to this road trip, I’ll finally need to invest in new tires for my car (and maybe a full-sized spare one for the trip) = $$$
I have so many blog post ideas (seriously, you should see how many drafts I have lined up here), and I can’t wait to start writing them and getting back into a blogging routine. :)