My biggest home buying regret: not fully considering the future
I’ve made a lot of financial mistakes over the years (which is kinda why this blog exists in the first place), but I never thought I’d consider anything related to buying my first home to be a mistake.
Let me backtrack a little bit.
Just over four years ago, I found myself single, with a good job (plus lots of freelance work), and a $50,000 down payment. I had always imagined buying my first home with a partner, but when I was ready to buy and found no man by my side, I thought: why should that stop me? I worked so hard the previous 6 years to get out of $20,000 worth of debt, save up a $10,000 Emergency Fund, as well as a large enough down payment, I knew I could do it on my own. So that’s what I did. :)
I found myself a Realtor and went house hunting. Within a few weeks, I found exactly what I was looking for: a cute 1-bedroom townhouse in a great neighbourhood. After a few rounds of negotiation, we settled on a price which was well under the mortgage amount I was approved for (and the budget I had set for myself), even before my down payment.
Things moved quickly, and soon I was in my new home. I was making extra payments towards the mortgage, saving money, and having fun exploring my new neighbourhood with my new friends. My office moved to a new location, and all of a sudden, my commute to work was 15 minutes. Life was good.
Little did I know that by the end of that year (8 months after moving in), I’d be quitting my job and moving to Europe.
Moving to Europe was one of the best experiences of my life. I learned how to hustle as a full-time freelancer, and I got to explore so many different countries. However, it wasn’t good on my finances, as I had to continue paying my mortgage while I was away, and had to significantly scale back on my retirement contributions.
Now that I’ve had my home for 4+ years, I’m finally starting to think about selling it. My home, as lovely as it is, just doesn’t fit my lifestyle anymore. My plan had always been to re-evaluate my living situation after my 5-year mortgage is up, but now that I’m almost there, I find myself wondering if it was all worth it.
I spoke with my Realtor just a few weeks ago, and based on recent sales history in my area, he thinks I’ll be able to sell for more than what I paid for it. After running my own numbers, I’ll likely come out ahead over renting during the same period of time. So, that makes me happy. But I wish I had considered whether my life was really settled by the time I was ready to buy. I thought it was, but clearly it wasn’t.
That being said, I really do love my home, and I’ve had a lot of great home ownership experiences so far:
- I borrowed a manageable amount of money for my mortgage
- I kept early retirement goals in check
- I kept savings in the bank
- I’ve met a lot of really great people in my neighbourhood
- I learned how to deal with a strata council (pros and cons)
- I learned how to be happy living on my own
- I went through a successful renovation project
Thankfully this “mistake” (likely) will end up as a positive outcome for me financially, but it certainly has made me re-evaluate where I want to live going forward, and that as a single female living in an insanely expensive city like Vancouver, renting is probably what’s in my future.
Author: Krystal Yee
I’m a personal finance blogger and marketing professional based in Vancouver. I’m a former Toronto Star (Moneyville) columnist, author of The Beginner’s Guide to Saving and Investing, and co-founder of the Canadian Personal Finance Conference. When I’m not working, you can usually find me running, climbing, playing field hockey, or plotting my next adventure.